{"id":1556,"date":"2024-03-01T15:35:49","date_gmt":"2024-03-01T20:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/Genesis\/?page_id=1556"},"modified":"2024-03-01T15:35:49","modified_gmt":"2024-03-01T20:35:49","slug":"13-separation","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/Genesis\/13-separation","title":{"rendered":"13-Separation"},"content":{"rendered":"<table style=\"border-collapse: collapse; width: 100%;\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 100%;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/Genesis\/13-separation\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1555 img-fluid\" src=\"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/Genesis\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Genesis-Logo-13-150x150.png\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 100%;\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"width: 100%;\">\n<p align=\"RIGHT\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05d1\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dear Ones, most of us want to do good, help others, and follow the Torah, yet, sometimes, we get distracted, and on occasion, we have bouts of anger, temporary tantrums, do naughty things, and make excuses for ourselves. I don&#8217;t have the energy. I feel emotionally drained. My body is flat. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, we fail. We battle with our evil inclination, and sometimes, our evil nature gets the best of us. We understand how hellish it can be. Perhaps that is why many highly regard our Father, Abraham. He is a paragon, a megastar, a champion, and a victor to us. Abraham is our ultimate hero. He exhibited good, righteous, just, refined, honest, ethical, moral, and spiritually sensitive characteristics. Abraham is like a graceful grandfather figure who, at 75 years of age, was an experienced, wise, logical, perceptive, determined, devoted, calm, kind, loving, humble, non-assuming, influential, and wealthy individual. (See Genesis 12.4). That is how many of us perceive Abraham. There is a wealth of information on Abraham&#8217;s life within the Torah, revealing how he lived and served [the] Lord.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Abraham chose to serve [the] Lord with his entire being, even when it was hellish. Each of us knows there are times when serving [the] Lord, according to (Deuteronomy 5.5) is challenging. <\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8216;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">You shall love [the] Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your resources.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> <span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">There are great rewards for those who achieve loving [the] Lord with all their heart, soul, and resources. Abraham was on a plain all to his own. He accomplished some fantastic spiritual stuff that caused him to stand out.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">In our previous study in (Genesis 12), we focused on two different lifestyles: an observant lifestyle and a less observant one. We were trying to imagine Abraham standing at a fork in the path he was on. There were two signs. The sign on the right said God will Bless all who follow this path. The other sign said to continue. In other words, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8216;I don&#8217;t see anything wrong with me.&#8217; Some people prefer for God not to interfere in their lives or affairs. This type of individual wants to be just a little better than good enough. They want to be a few marks above acceptable. They are not great, but they are good enough.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Genesis chapter 13 draws a painful distinction between Abraham and his nephew, Lot. Abraham said to Lot, <\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8216;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Please separate yourself from me; if you take the left hand, then I will go to the right; or if you depart to the right hand, then I will go to the left.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em> <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><b>That is sad! Torah Observance between them was a point of contention!<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> Abraham was righteous. He had received a NON-VERBALE directive from [the] Lord that he was doing his best to follow. Lot was also righteous, <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><u>BUT<\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> NOT on the same high level as Abraham. Lot&#8217;s character deficiencies hindered and tormented Abraham&#8217;s Holy Soul. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Lot did not have a revelation from [the] Lord like his uncle Abraham, who was a Maggid Evangelist, a nomadic preacher, and a narrator of Spiritual stories. Lot was raised in the indecisive environment of his father, Charan, who did not experience God as Abraham did. Charan was influenced by his father, Terach, Lot&#8217;s grandfather. Terach was an idolater. Nahor, Charan, and Abraham were raised in an environment of idols and idolatry. Lot had ethical and moral deficiencies in himself, his marriage, his children, his grandchildren, and his servants.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">I am reminded of the song sung by Harry Chapin Cat&#8217;s in the Cradle. The song is about a man too busy to invest time in his son&#8217;s life. The lyrics tell the story of a boy growing up to become just like his father.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><u>Lots Servants<\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Genesis 13 shares Lot&#8217;s failings with his servant relationships. The Torah says, <\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8216;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><em><span style=\"color: #0000cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">There was strife between the herdsmen of Abraham&#8217;s cattle and the herdsmen of Lot&#8217;s cattle.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">[Genesis 13] <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><u>Lots Wife<\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Lot&#8217;s wife was against him. Lot prepared unleavened bread, i.e., Matzah, bread without leaven. The Torah makes it very clear that Lot prepared The Passover Matzah. Lot&#8217;s wife did not participate in The Passover Meal. A fierce quarrel broke out over the salt, for he [Lot] said to her [his wife],&#8217; Give these guests a little salt,&#8217; to which she replied, &#8216;Do you want to introduce that evil practice here also?&#8217; Bereisheit Rabba 50.4 When Lot did not have salt for The Passover meal, she went from house to house requesting salt. She gossiped about Lot. She announced, &#8216;We have Guests,&#8217; and Lot needs salt for The Feast he is preparing. Bereisheit Rabba 51.5 One of our Sages taught, &#8216;Lot&#8217;s wife turned into salt because she was stingy towards those in need. Lot himself was a generous person, always inviting guests. His wife resented guests and discouraged them. One trick of hers was not to provide salt, a small thing that makes a big difference to guests. Therefore, she was punished using salt, measure for measure.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Our study is entitled Separation (Genesis 13.9), which says, <span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>&#8216;Is not the whole land before you? Please <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>\u05d4\u05b4\u05e4\u05b8\u05bc\u05e8\u05b6\u05d3 <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>Hee Paw Rehd \u2013 separate.&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 13.11) Says, <span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><i>&#8216;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>They separated themselves, one from the other.&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 13.14) Says, <span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>&#8216;And [the] Lord said to [Abraham], <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>\u05d0\u05b7\u05d7\u05b2\u05e8\u05b5\u05d9 \u05d4\u05b4\u05e4\u05bc\u05b8\u05e8\u05b6\u05d3\u05be\u05dc\u05d5\u05b9\u05d8 \u05de\u05b5\u05e2\u05b4\u05de\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 <\/i><\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>after Lot was separated from him&#8230;&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The Word <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4\u05b8\u05bc\u05e8\u05b6\u05d3 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Paw Rehd means to separate, to disintegrate, to loosen, to decompose, to break down. Lot&#8217;s weakness is revealed. In Genesis 13, Lot breaks away. Lot divides himself from Abraham. He was attracted to the plains of Sodom. Lot led his family and servants to a perverse, wicked city that was sexually perverted. (Genesis 13.11) Says, <span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>&#8216;Then Lot chose for himself the valley of the Jordan, and Lot journeyed east, and they separated \/ Divided themselves, one from the other.&#8217; <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">On the other hand, The Lord God of Israel Testified regarding Abraham. (Genesis 18.19) Says, <\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8216;For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of [the] Lord, to do justice and judgment; that [the] Lord may bring upon Abraham that which He has spoken of him.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The first Letter of The Word <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4\u05b8\u05bc\u05e8\u05b6\u05d3 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Paw Rehd is The Letter <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Pey. The <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Pey represents the mouth. Notice how the Letter Pey twists around like a creepy crawly thing. The Pey is like the face of a human. The <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Pey represents what we say. In this situation, The <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Pey represented what Lot did not say. Lot followed the observations he learned from Abraham to a degree. That was during Abraham&#8217;s stay in Horan. It was during that time Abraham taught the nations The Seven Laws. At the age of seventy Abraham made his first journey to The Land of Canaan. This was in reference to the word &#8216;had&#8217; in (Genesis 12.1). <span style=\"color: #0066ff;\"><i>&#8216;And [the] Lord had said to Abram, Get out from your country, and from your family, and from your father\u2019s house, to a land that I will show you.&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #00cc33;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dear Ones we want to avoid following Lots path, we should teach our children and those we love to interact with Spiritual People. We want to help those we love to guard the entrances of their lives. Corruption is accessible to each of us, so we must be diligent to protect those we love and take a loving, active, participative role in their lives.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 13.1-4) Says, <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>&#8216;And Abraham went up from Egypt, he, and his wife, and all that he had, and Lot with him, to the Negev. And Abraham was very rich in cattle, in silver, and in gold. And he went on his journeys from the Negev to Beth-El, to the place where his tent had been at the beginning, between Beth-El and Hai; To the place of the altar, which he had made there at the first; and there <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>Abraham called on the name of [the] Lord.&#8217; <\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Holy Scripture Informs us of that. <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #00cc33;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 12.2) shares how Abraham could <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Tahoma;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05d5\u05b6\u05d4\u05b0\u05d9\u05b5\u0596\u05d4<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #00cc33;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Veh Hih Yeh <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #00cc33;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><u>become<\/u><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #00cc33;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> a blessing. Individuals who are a blessing understand there are conditions. Being a Blessing is not on our terms. Lord Gave Abraham four prerequisites:<\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>&#8216;Leave your land, country, territory, and leave your kindred, relatives, offspring \u2013 and leave your father&#8217;s house, Go to The Land that I show you.&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"> We see the difference between our righteous father Abraham and his not-as-righteous nephew Lot. Both were greatly blessed, but they were not able to dwell together. (Amos 3.3) Says, <\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #0066cc;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><i>&#8216;Can two walk together unless they are in agreement?&#8217;<\/i><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">May we stay within the Torah&#8217;s Guidelines of righteous living and repentance. May we help others. May we bring peace and healing to our world. May this coming Sabbath and every Sabbath be a blessed Day.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Shabbat Shalom<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dr. Akiva Gamliel Belk<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewishpath.org\/bookpage.html\"><span style=\"color: #330066;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Grande;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Author<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u05d1\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4 Dear Ones, most of us want to do good, help others, and follow the Torah, yet, sometimes, we get distracted, and on occasion, we have bouts of anger, temporary tantrums, do naughty things, and make excuses for ourselves. I don&#8217;t have the energy. I feel emotionally drained. My body is flat. 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