{"id":1520,"date":"2022-03-25T17:42:25","date_gmt":"2022-03-25T17:42:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/?page_id=1520"},"modified":"2022-03-25T17:42:25","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T17:42:25","slug":"23-mourning-sarah","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/genesis\/23-mourning-sarah","title":{"rendered":"23 \u2013 Mourning Sarah"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-wp-editing=\"1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/genesis\/23-mourning-sarah\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-1519\" src=\"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Genesis-Logo-23-150x150.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Genesis-Logo-23-150x150.png 150w, http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Genesis-Logo-23-300x300.png 300w, http:\/\/jewishpath.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/Genesis-Logo-23.png 324w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p align=\"RIGHT\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05d1\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Genesis 23 \u2013 Mourning Sarah<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dear family and friends, mourning is for us who feel the loss of a loved one. Mourning one&#8217;s loss is a Jewish \/ Noachide tradition dating back to (Genesis 7.4) where the Lord Said, &#8216;in another seven days I will cause it to rain upon the earth.&#8217; That seven-day delay was to mourn Sit Sheva for Methuselah and give the sinful inhabitants more time to return to God. <span style=\"color: #808080;\">Rabbi Meir Zlotowitz and Rabbi Nosson Scherman, <\/span><span style=\"color: #808080;\"><u>The Artscroll Tanach Series &#8211; Bereishis Vol. I (a)<\/u><\/span> <span style=\"color: #808080;\">(Brooklyn, New York: Mesorah Publications, Ltd. 3rd Impression, 1989), p 244 \u2013<\/span> (Genesis 23.2) shares that Abraham came to mourn the death of Sarah, his beloved wife of over 100 years, and to weep for her. They were dedicated to each other throughout her 127 years, from birth to death. <span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Sarah was righteous. Sarah was a prophetess. Our Sages teach that Sarah&#8217;s level of prophecy was greater than that of Avraham.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #999999;\">Rabbi Yisrael Isser Zvi Herczeg, <\/span><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><u>The Sapirstein Edition Rashi Bereisheit \/ Genesis<\/u><\/span> <span style=\"color: #999999;\">(Brooklyn, New York: Mesorah Publications, Ltd. First Edition 10th impression 2007), p 222.<\/span> <span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">If we review each marriage from creation until now, Abraham and Sarah would be at the top in Ha Torah.\u00a0<\/span>Why? Ha Torah repeats, &#8216;Sarai\/Sarah Abraham&#8217;s wife&#8217; seventeen times for a reason. What is that reason? <span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">Why is &#8216;Sarai\/Sarah Abraham&#8217;s wife&#8217; emphasized so emphatically?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"background-color: #ffff00;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large; background-color: #ffff00;\">The Seventeen Listings <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">are referenced for studying and connecting with the emphatically charged feelings they share.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 11.29) says, &#8216;the name of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Abram&#8217;s wife was Sarai<\/span>;.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 11.31) says, &#8216;And Terah took Abram his son, and Lot the son of Haran, his grandson, and Sarai his daughter-in-law, his son and Abram&#8217;s wife;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 12.5) says, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8216;Abram took Sarai his wife,&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 12.11) says, &#8216;[Abram] said to Sarai, his wife.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 12.17) says, &#8216;the Lord Plagued Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because of Sarai Abram&#8217;s wife.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 16,1) says, &#8216;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Sarai Abram&#8217;s wife<\/span> bore him no children;.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 16.3) says, &#8216;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Sarai Abram&#8217;s wife<\/span> took Hagar her maid the Egyptian&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 17.15) &#8216;And God Said to Abraham, As for Sarai, your wife.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 17.19) &#8216;God Said, Sarah, your wife shall bear you a son indeed, and you shall call his name Isaac;.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 18.9) says, &#8216;they said to [Abraham], Where is Sarah your wife?&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 20.2) says, &#8216;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Abraham said of Sarah, his wife,<\/span> She is my sister; and Abimelech king of Gerar sent, and took Sarah.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 20.14), &#8216;Abimelech returned to [Abraham] Sarah, his wife.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 20.18) says, &#8216;the Lord Closed all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Sarah Abraham&#8217;s wife.<\/span>&#8216;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 23.19) says, <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8216;Abraham buried Sarah his wife<\/span> in the cave of the field of Machpelah before Mamre; the same is Hebron in the land of Canaan.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 24.36) says, &#8216;Sarah, my master&#8217;s wife bore a son to my master when she was old; and to him has he given all that he has.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 25.10) says, &#8216;The field which Abraham purchased from the Hittites; <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">there was Abraham buried, and Sarah, his wife.<\/span>&#8216;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Genesis 49.31) says, &#8216;There they buried Abraham and Sarah his wife; there they buried Isaac and Rebekah, his wife; and there I buried Leah.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"background-color: #ffff00;\"><b>The Life of Sarah<\/b><\/span> concludes with the last words of (Genesis 23.1) <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05d7\u05b7\u05d9\u05b5\u05bc\u05d9 \u05e9\u05b8\u05c2\u05e8\u05b8\u05d4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Chah-Yah &#8211; Saw-Raw meaning &#8216;The Life of Sarah.&#8217; How did Sarah live? What can we learn from Sarah? She was a loving, kind, good, wholesome wife. Maharal comments that a wife has two missions in life. The three names, Iscah, Sarai, Sarah, define her life. (Genesis 10.27 \u2013 28).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\">\u2022 <span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The first name is hers from birth as an individual.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\">\u2022 <span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The second name comes with marriage when she elevates to a higher mission if she marries a righteous person.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8216;Sarah&#8217;s <\/span><\/span><\/span><em><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">two names indicate her two missions; one mission is connected with her father, and the other mission is in connection with her husband. &#8216;Iscah&#8217; is the name indicating personal greatness. It was Sarah&#8217;s for her own mission, and it is the one used in telling of her birth in Charan. &#8216;Sarah&#8217; indicated that she joined Abraham in leading the world to its ultimate goal. Sarah was the name associated with the Abrahamitic mission from the time of her marriage.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">She was called. &#8211; <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u05e1\u05b8\u05db\u05b8\u05d4 <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Saw Chawh meaning, to look, to see, to observe, to prognosis, to prognosticate because she could &#8216;see; the future by holy inspirations. <span style=\"color: #999999;\">Rabbi Avrohom Davis \/ Rabbi Avrohom Kleinkaufman, <\/span><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><u>The Metsudah Chumash \/ Rashi<\/u><\/span> <span style=\"color: #999999;\">(Hoboken, NJ: KTAV Publishing House, Inc. 1993) p113.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Bereishit Rabba 60.16) informs us that The Shekinah shaded the entrance to Sarah&#8217;s tent in the form of a cloud. As long as Sarah lived, the doors to her tent were wide open. There was a blessing on Sarah&#8217;s Challah, and the Sabbath lamp burned continually from the evening of the Sabbath until the evening of the following Sabbath. When Sarah died, each of these manifestations ceased, but when Rebekah came, they returned.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">We see a vast hole left by that righteous wife. Nothing would be the same. Abraham began fading into the background as Isaac started to take charge. In part, we can identify why Abraham was so devastated. Sarah was such an influential part of Abraham&#8217;s life.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"background-color: #ffff00;\"><b>Here are three points<\/b><\/span> we should keep in mind.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">First, Sarah fulfilled her mission.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Second, Sarah was the ultimate helpmate.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Third, Sarah&#8217;s life taught women how to be God-Fearing Wives.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Remember that on The Second Day of Creating, The Lord God wrote everyone&#8217;s name in Sefer Chaim, The Book of life. When we speak of the life of Sarah, we begin with The Second Day of Creating, when her soul received identity. The same is true for Abraham and each individual born into our world. <span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">The Lord God Granted each person eternal life on The Second Day of creating<\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">(Isaiah 35.10) reminds us of our ultimate journey. &#8216;The Redeemed of The Lord shall return and come to Zion with songs and everlasting joy upon their heads; they shall obtain joy and gladness, and sorrow and sighing shall flee away.&#8217;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The Lord God Declared in (Isaiah 56.7), &#8216;Even them will I bring to My Holy Mountain, and make them joyful in My house of prayer; their burnt offerings and their sacrifices shall be accepted upon My altar; for My house shall be called a house of prayer for all peoples. Where is the House \/ Temple of the Lord God of Israel today?<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">The Lord does the Gathering. The Lord God will Bring &#8216;All Peoples.&#8217; No race, gender, nation, or people will be excluded. &#8216;Even them will I bring!&#8217; <span style=\"color: #cc0000;\">If you are, lost, The Lord God will find you. If hope seems lost, He will provide hope.<\/span> (Psalms 30.12 \u2013 13) says, &#8216;You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; You have loosed my sackcloth and girded me with gladness; To the end, my glory may sing praise to You and not be silent. O Lord my God, I will give thanks to You forever.&#8217; We mourn our loss while at the same time we offer praise and adoration to the Lord God of Israel.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">When a Jewish person dies we sit Shivah and we pray the Kaddish prayer. Shivah lasts for seven days as we mourn our loss. Kaddish is our mourning prayer where we pray for the soul of the deceased for 11 months. The Kaddish prayer is for the living. It states the value of life and that the Creator will take away all suffering and bring joy when Moshiach comes.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">May each of us enjoy good health, happiness, healing, restoration, and Blessing, as we learn that we already have Eternal Life. May we be confident and trust in The Lord and Ha Torah. And may we work with our mates to complete the mission God has appointed for us.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Good Sabbath!<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Blessings,<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dr. Akiva Gamliel Belk<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"JUSTIFY\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.jewishpath.org\/bookpage.html\"><span style=\"font-family: Lucida Sans Unicode, sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Author<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u05d1\u05d9\u05d9\u05d4 Genesis 23 \u2013 Mourning Sarah Dear family and friends, mourning is for us who feel the loss of a loved one. 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